Positivity....published while I was a student

Positivity-Moheindu Chemjong, Perth, WA

Finally, I've realized what makes me tick. For me personally, the most attractive person in a crowd doesn’t necessarily have to be suave and be reeking of some expensive perfume all the time or have to be a person who's very knowledgeable with the most polished demeanor, a person with a positive approach towards to life can also be equally captivating for positivity is the fundamental quality, if you have it-you do have a great deal-you're already a charmer, a winner!

My favorite author, Stephanie Dowrick says, the greatest power one has is the power to influence others positively and that it should be treasured. My neighbor, Ian, for example is a constant source of positivity for me. A stocky tall man nearing his 70s, one can easily say that Ian has aged gracefully. Ian's zest for life is remarkable! When we bump into one another occasionally, I often ask him how he's been keeping, to which he blurts out, "Marvellous"," Fantastic", " Superb"." Never better"," Almost as good as you" and you can see the radiance in his eyes as he utters these magical words. His words are almost as inspiring and powerful as Oprah Winfrey's or as Rikki Lake's! I, immediately catch the vibe and then it's me who has that sparkle in my eyes, bounce in my  steps and a genuine smile across my face. With endless assignments, presentations and exams, life for me as a student is quite demanding and my dear neighbor, Ian's words work like a soothing balm on my sometimes tired soul!

Positivity doesn't mean turning a blind eye to the grey areas of life. Positivity means accepting life's both good and bad as they come, being resilient and bringing out the best from the worst situations. As the famous adage goes, "Love life," it really pays to be enthusiastic in life about everything though it might just be a tiny butterfly hovering by. Research indicates that a positive attitude goes a long way in determining a person's perception of the world. It not just helps people conquer sickness and disabilities but also makes them more efficient and successful. A positive attitude empowers a person to deal with difficult situations, focus on the brighter sides of life. Of course, life isn’t laden with roses all the way through, there are often times when things go out of hands, misunderstanding happen, dreams are broken, life does have the rough edges and when we feel like packing up for goods and calling it the quits. It is in these times that positivity comes to aid.

Positivity might look like a distant dram but unlike any other skill, it can be learnt and it comes with practice. One of the most important aspects of cultivating positivity in oneself is being with people who have a passion to live or just love life. Positivity is contagious and though it might just be for a short while, why not live in their skin? My best friend is another person in my life who is very positive. When things don't go my way, he tells me to take a positive approach to the problem and reminds me how every single problem under the sun has a solution and that the brighter days will surely come. This already is so admirable and gives all the people around him the strength to carry on.  It is for the indomitable positive spirit that I not only admire and respect him but also love his company.

Positivity is the magic sutra that makes life much more beautiful and much more meaningful. So for just once, why not try to look at things positively, just try it once. Soon, it'll be second nature to you!